Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Based on cutting-edge research and brain science, this essential examination of women's sexuality can drastically change your sexual life and make it one full of pleasure and confidence.

For the last ten years, scientists have been working to create a "pink pill" that would provide women the same benefits that Viagra does for males. Where is it, then? Come as You Are explains everything. Well, that pill will never exist for reasons this book makes very apparent, but scientists have learnt more about women's sexuality in the previous few years than we ever imagined, thanks to the research that has gone into it.

The first lesson in this indispensable, life-changing book by Dr. Emily Nagoski is that, much like fingerprints, every woman has a distinct sexuality, and that, when it comes to our anatomy, sexual response systems, and how our bodies react to the world of sexuality, women differ more than men. Thus, we should never evaluate ourselves by using the experiences of others. since it's typical for women to differ.

Sex occurs in a setting, which is the second lesson. Additionally, the backdrop around a woman's arousal, desire, and orgasm is influenced by all the difficulties of daily living.

According to cutting-edge studies from a variety of fields, how you feel about having sex is more significant for women in developing and maintaining a satisfying sex life than what they do or how they do it. Thus, stress, mood, trust, and body image are essential to a woman's sexual wellness rather than being incidental elements. You can produce more deep pleasure and better sex than you ever imagined for yourself once you know how to affect these aspects.

Emily Nagoski is able to verify it.